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Tuesday, April 15, 2014

The Gorgeous and Fantastic Nana Prah!

I can't tell y'all how excited I am to interview a fellow Black Opal Books author for my post this week. Nana Prah is an amazing lady and novelist who's been lucky enough to live on two continents.  Her newest novel, Midwife to Destiny, is set in one of those places--her beloved homeland of Africa.  I can't wait to share her awesomeness with you, so…without further ado…the gorgeous NANA PRAH!

What kind of kid were you in school?

I was the ideal student. Intelligent, quiet - but answered questions in class, competitive when it came to grades, and self motivated – my mom never had to tell me to do my homework. I rocked the school scene. It’s the social aspect I had trouble with, but the people I hung out with loved me just the way I was.

Add in athletics and you just described me.  Oh.  Wait.  I'm not sure I'd have fit under the "Quiet" label...

What was your favorite subject?

I was good at so many subjects that I didn’t have a favorite. I’m not bragging. No subject really called out to me. I guess I’ve always been a Jackie of all trades.

I think that makes us more interesting people.  I've taught everything from Physical Science to Theatre to English to Catholic Doctrine and Scripture.  I loved each one.

Tell us an embarrassing (PG-13) story about yourself. 

Seventh grade math class. We’re doing an assignment so there isn’t a noise to be heard. All of a sudden I sneeze and fart at the same time.  Everybody heard and a few people laughed, but nobody said anything, especially not me. For a few weeks after, the class clown would pretend to sneeze and fart. Hilarious now, not so funny then.

You just made me LOL.  As a teacher of many years, I can tell you that you're definitely not the only person that's happened to!

What do you want your readers to get out of your writing?

A sense of having read a ‘true’ romance that could happen in real life. I write multicultural novels, but the character’s skin colors and nationalities are not the focus. The way the story unfolds between two human beings searching to find love in this gigantic world is what I emphasize. 

That right there is why Zora Neale Hurston is my favorite writer of all time.  I love you now.

How much research goes into your writing?

I do enough research to get my facts straight. In my first novel, Love Through Time, I had to read about the Aztecs, Nazi Germany, The Crusades and the concept of past lives. For Midwife to Destiny my nursing background helped a great deal, but I did a lot of research on South Africa. I even took a trip to beautiful Cape Town.

Oh, darn.  What a hassle that pesky bit of travel research must've caused you.  :-)

Tell us about your favorite fan comment/reaction.

It’s been years since one of my friends read a book. I gave her a paperback copy of Love Through Time. After reading it she told me she couldn’t put it down. When I met up with her she kept telling me how wonderful a job I’d done. Yes, she swelled up my head.

Friends like that are awesome.  And usually the best marketers of our writing.

Which is your favorite all-time literary character? 

Don’t judge me, but Stephanie Plum. I love her. She’s a hoot. In every book Janet Evanovich has me guffawing. Not a pretty sound, but it feels good.

I'd NEVER diss Stephanie Plum.  She makes me laugh out loud and has gotten me through many of my husband's deployments.

What are you working on right now?           

I’m currently in edits for my next release from Black Opal Books, Love Undercover. I’m so excited about this book, there’s romance, fighting, secrecy, an undercover female agent, immigration issues, and a rigid yet hot male prison guard. I made sure all the prison guards were hot.

I'm not sure you can use rigid and hot in the same sentence on my blog.  I write YA, for Heaven's sake!

What’s your best book marketing tip? 

Don’t be afraid to ask bloggers and other writers for anything. Whether it’s a tweet, FB mention, a post on their blog, a review, whatever.  If you don’t ask, then you can’t receive and these things are important when it comes to marketing.

I need to learn to do just that.  I'm terribly bashful when it comes to marketing myself.

If people could see you while you write, what would be the silliest thing they’d witness?

I don’t do silly, Julia. Unless you count – nope, nothing.

Oh, man!  Why do I get the feeling you're holding back?  Can't you see I need constant confirmation I'm not the silliest person alive?

We’re always looking for great books/authors.  Whom/what is one of your favorites that you think has been grossly under appreciated?

Debbie Christiana. Ever since I read her first book, Twin Flames, a stunning paranormal romance about past lives, I fell in love with her writing. Her second novel, Solstice, is also phenomenal. Yes we are now friends and she is the most supportive person on the planet, but even if I’d never connected with her I’d still tell you her books rock.

Debbie is a fantastic human being.  Solstice is on my TBR list.

Do you write full- or part-time?  If only part-time, what’s your “real” job?

I write part-time. My fake job, which allows me to eat and live in something other than a cardboard box, is teaching students how to be nurses. I love my fake job.

And I love nurses!  They've saved my life on more than one occasion.  Thank you for putting more people like that into the workforce.

Is there any question you’ve always wanted to be asked?  What is it?  And what’s the answer?

What is one thing that makes Nana Prah so bleeping fabulous?
I’ve been trying to figure that out for years with no true answer. All I know how to do is shine, and I do it well.

You really do!  Just reading one of your Facebook posts is enough to make me smile.

Thank you, Nana, so much for dropping by!  I had way too much fun.  Come back anytime!

Okay, everybody, you need to run out and buy Nana's books right now.  You can find Midwife to Destiny on both B&N and Amazon.

Connect with Nana on Facebook.

8:00 AM Posted by JULIA JOSEPH 10

Friday, March 28, 2014

We're all in this together, ladies (and some gentlemen)!

To make it easier to understand my perspective, let me tell y'all right now that I've been an Army wife for eleven years.  Much of who I am today has been shaped by living the military life for the majority of my adulthood.  I wrote the following short story quite a few years ago.

And before you ask, yes, it really did happen.  (Even my own husband, bless his heart, asked that question!)

I couldn’t help but watch the scene unfold, as much as I tried not to.  I’d been enjoying a momentary mental vacation while my friend did everything but back flips to entertain my cabin fevered and depressed children.  Then, a young woman standing just beyond the three of them—alone in the endless Burger King line with three little boys who had to be (at most) ages three, two, and one—caught my eye. 
The poor girl, probably only 20 or 21 herself, looked frazzled and exhausted.  It looked as if she had tried to brush her hair at some point in the day, but, as soon as the mass had been tamed into a ponytail, some child’s fingers had pulled it in five different directions so that strands seemed to be shooting out everywhere.  Her t-shirt, grey with some slogan about her husband’s unit written in black across the front and Operation Iraqi Freedom II plastered on the back, was stained with what might have been baby food or spit up, and her jeans and tennis shoes were terribly worn.  (I’m not even sure those shoes were laced, come to think of it.)  Her boys were well, if modestly, dressed.  Their clothes were clean, though their faces were not. 
Her oldest boy insisted on repeating (loudly) that he was hungry and wanted the fish toy with his meal—a diatribe the young mom was attempting valiantly to ignore.  The baby was trying (and failing) to sleep in a car seat in the back of the shopping cart.  The middle child was crying, in that horribly screamy way only a toddler can, while his mom tried anything she could think of to soothe him.
Before the family could make it through the near-infinite line, the middle child had succeeded in making the baby cry.  The oldest child was still going on and on about how he wanted nuggets and a fish toy, no matter how many times he had been assured that was what he was getting.  I could tell the mom, who'd had more than enough, was still trying to disregard all of the mayhem.  It was a strategy I used quite often myself when I just wanted to sit down on the floor and cry after a long day of being trapped in the house with no company but my frustrated children.
I think I saw the snap before the young mom even felt it coming.
She grabbed the handle of the shopping cart, leaned into the face of her two year old sitting in the child seat up front, and screamed. 
She screamed her bloody head off.
And she did so in the PX food court, in front of about thirty army families of varying life stages—the blue haired Army Wife of the Year 1945, God, and everybody.
“Shut up!  Shut UP!  Shut up, shut up, shut up!  SHUT UP!!!”
I was pretty sure time stopped.  The whole crowd, all of whom had tried ignoring the scene for the past fifteen minutes, turned and looked at this poor young woman.  I could feel the weight of their judgment fall on her.  All these people, who knew her situation intuitively, stared at her. 
And they judged her. 
Not one of them had taken a second from their own lives to try to help her, even though we’d all most likely been in her situation (albeit some of us during Korea or Vietnam).  And I lost it.  I knew exactly how she felt at that moment. 
Because I’d had that same meltdown not two hours earlier. 
I’d just done it in the privacy of my own home.  No one had been there to judge me.  But, in judging her, I knew they were finding me guilty too.
I’d had a terrible day myself.  My husband had been deployed for a grand total of three weeks.  In protest of his father’s absence, my three-year-old son had three pee-pee accidents in a 24-hour period.  My nine-month-old daughter had an ear infection.  Again.  And my only friend within three driving hours had worked until 6 in the evening.  (Oh, and did I mention that my mother was dying of a terminal illness?)  I’d felt completely alone and entirely overwhelmed.   
In spite of a natural reticence to talk to strangers and my fear of making a fool of myself, I got up.  I walked over to the struggling young mom, and I hugged her.  I didn’t ask permission.  I didn’t stop to think.  I just grabbed her and hugged her as closely as I could.  Rather than pull away, she grabbed me like a float thrown to a drowning child.  And we stood there while she sobbed into my neck.
I had never met this girl in my life.  But I knew her. 
She was me.
“Sweetie,” I said, “Is your husband deployed?”
“Yes,” she sniffled.  “He’s been gone eight months.  I don’t know if I can do this anymore.”
“I know, sweetie.  My husband’s also gone.  I know how you feel.  And I’d be screaming right now too, if it wasn’t for my friend right over there,” I pointed about twenty feet away to Lizzie.  “Those are my kids.  She’s helping me with them because I feel as crazy as you do.  But we’re all going to be okay.  You are going to be okay.  Okay?”
I hugged her again.
“You’re not alone.  We’re all in this together.”  Oh great, I thought, now I’m freaking crying
“Thank you.”  She tried to smile at me through tears and agony.
“I’m sorry, but I gotta go before I start sobbing,” I managed to squeak as I ran over to my own table.
When I'd sat myself down, I looked around and noticed that most of the women, and some of the men, were crying now too.  Lizzie couldn’t stop sniffling.  And the whole room was very quiet.  Even the poor girl's crazy kids.  Slowlyvery slowlyeveryone swung back into action.  We started eating again or picking up our orders and moving them to the tables.
When Lizzie and I left twenty minutes later, the young mom and her kids were finally sitting at a table with their food. 
And they were laughing.

5:51 PM Posted by JULIA JOSEPH 0

Monday, March 17, 2014

Writing Process Blog Hop

Long time, no see, everybody!  Sorry I've been gone so long, but everyone (read: me) has been sick around the house for the last two weeks.  Ugh.

Now, to the point--

I've been invited to participate in a Writing Process Blog Hop.  The whole point is to introduce you (and me) to authors we may not know yet (but will come to love!).

I was asked to join by the prolific Cathrina Constantine.  She writes all kinds of YA (yay!), from the dark and terrifying to mysteries to the dystopian.  She also has a great blog where she hosts lots of guest authors and puts out wonderful reviews.

Also, I've been tasked with tagging other authors to do the same.  My two picks do not yet have their own blogs, so I'll be hosting them here.  The first is my good friend, R. S. Dabney, a brand new author.  She writes New Adult Sci-Fi/Contemporary Fantasy with a biblical bent.  My second tag is Janice Brooks.  She writes Women's Fiction and Romance with a Spiritual twist.  Both ladies are amazing, and I can't wait for you to see what they're doing!

Okay, down to business.  I've got to answer four questions about my process.  Here goes:

What am I working on?

Right now, I'm working on the sequel to my debut YA novel, The Broken.  It's about 40,000 words in, and I'm having a fantastically nerve-wracking time.  This book will take a bit of a turn from my first (although both are still Paranormal with Romantic elements) as it will include a large portion of historical fiction as well.  (That's been a blast, as I'm finally getting to use all of that studying I did in and of the Ancient Middle East.)  

How does my work differ from others of my genre?

My work has a definite spiritual flavor to it.  I also like to delve deep into my characters' psyche.  I don't sugar coat what happens to them, nor do I write them to be unattainable icons of strength.  They are fallible, aggravating, and thoroughly lovable.

Why do I write what I do?

That's simple.  I write for young people.  I love them.  After years of teaching, how could I not?  I witnessed so much suffering in my students' lives that I felt like I had to do more.  How could I show them what it means to go beyond merely surviving the circumstances in their lives?  

How does my writing process work?

I'm in uncharted territory here.  My first book came so easily.  The second one…not so much.  I'm not an outliner, but I do like to have a road map.  So, I've gotten myself some help in the form of The Plot Whisperer, and I've really made progress.  It's easier now that I can see where I'm going.  (I was really lost for a while.)  

Either way, though, I have to have music.  I make out a playlist (that's totally changeable throughout the process), and it becomes my go-to any time I've got to work.  Those songs put my brain in the place it needs to be in order to function creatively.

Thanks for visiting!  Remember to check back here next week for the posts from R. S. and Janice!  And please visit with Cathrina and read her post from March 10th!  
9:10 AM Posted by JULIA JOSEPH 2

Thursday, February 20, 2014

The philosophical musings of Valerie Gilbert!

Welcome, everyone, to another post about a very special guest author! Today, I'm hosting the mystical Valerie Gilbert, the author of MEMORIES, DREAMS & DEFLECTIONS: My Odyssey Through Emotional Indigestion and Raving Violet, as she shares some fantastic tips for happiness and an embarrassing tidbit or two:

What kind of kid were you in school?

Well-behaved. A good student.  Self conscious, but confident too.  I was amused when a college pal recently saw a photo of me when I was around 9 or 10 (at a very regimented music camp, complete with uniform corduroy  knickers) and called me a “renegade.”  The prim little girl sitting on a bench with hands in lap and hair in pigtails?  He saw me as Wednesday from The Addams Family—a very high compliment. But that description applies to me more as an adult than a child. 

I’ve always endeavored to be kind to those who might be perceived as outcasts, even as a kid.  In grade school I made and posted signs about ecology and saving the environment long before it was a popular movement, as I believe in the interconnectedness of all life on this planet and was taught this by my parents, who raised me a Theosophist.

So interesting!  I’ll have to admit that I had to go and refresh my knowledge of Theosophy.  My nine hours of college Philosophy seem to be just a little too far in the past…

What was your favorite subject when you were younger?

Drama, philosophy and religion (but from a mystical, never orthodox perspective)

My faves too!  I minored in Drama and took graduate courses in the other two (all for my B.A. in Englisham I weird?). 

Tell us an embarrassing (PG-13) story about yourself. 

When I was in high school, in New York City, I was being considered for a role in a Broadway musical.  It was terribly exciting, as well as nerve wracking.  Those of us in the running got to know each other.  There was a really cute guy also auditioning who was a few years older than me.  I had a crush on him.  He called me one night while I was babysitting, and in the middle of our conversation, I had to throw up.  It wasn’t only nerves.  I’d just eaten a really big, rich meal with my mom and one of her friends.  The combination of chicken kiev and French pastry loaded with cream made me hurl.  I blurted, “Would you excuse me?” then dropped the kitchen phone on the counter and ran over to the sink, where I promptly puked all over the dirty dishes, making them dirtier.
I got back on the phone and said, “Sorry about that.”  I’m sure he was confused by the sounds he’d just heard.  “Are you okay?”  he asked tentatively.  I was never going to admit to what had just happened, so I played it off.  “Oh, I’m babysitting.  You know—kids.”   

I had a lot of dishes to do that night. 

            OMG.  I.  Can’t.  Even. 

What do you want your readers to get out of your writing?

I want people to start to think and feel for themselves.  So much of our lives is directed by social and cultural influences, as well as the all-pervasive media.  In many ways, our society encourages people to behave like herd animals, cultivating “need” for products that is simply illusory.  We’re always chasing dreams.  And they’re not even ours. 

Because I’m a provocateur, and argue very strong points, I hope to encourage my readers to do the same.  To question the status quo, why they’re doing what they’re doing, and with whom.  I encourage folk to take stock of their lives and do the housecleaning to really move in the direction of their own dreams.  Sadly, many people don’t have dreams beyond wanting the latest outfit or handbag.  As a result, we’re a country of debt-ridden people with too many useless products and too much landfill. 

That is a fantastic reason for being.  And a high mountain to climb.  I’m a thinking person and will admit to falling for consumerism too easily myself.  Ugh.

How much research goes into your writing?

Little to none.  If I’m commenting on a current events issue I’ll get the facts straight, but other than that, my job is to live my life to the fullest so I can then write about it, as my short stories are about my thoughts and experiences.

Wonderful!  You make me seem like a neurotic, researching mess.  I might just take a, I won’t.  My OCD just kicked back in at the thought.  Sheesh.

Tell us about your favorite fan comment/reaction.

I’m happy when my readers are happy!  When they “get me,” I can feel the joy bubbling over from their “aha!” responses.  When I explain how I apply certain philosophies and ideas to my life, it becomes easier (I think) for others to see how those same ideas might apply to their own lives.  Not to imitate, but to make their own.  Ideas are powerful.  Putting them into action is even more powerful.

            I’m already taking some of your ideas to heart.  And just from your interview!

Which is your favorite all-time literary character? 

For simplicity’s sake (I don’t keep a list of favorites) Milo from The Phantom Tollbooth by Norton Juster.  It’s one of my favorite books, and it’s not just for kids.  It’s full of incredible, delightful wisdom.
            Now I have a new book on my To Be Read list.  Uh-oh.

What are you reading/planning to read right now?

Turbulence: A Survivor’s Story by Annette Herfken as I’m going to produce the audio book for it shortly.  Then, The Afterlife of Billy Fingers, How my Bad Boy Brother Proved to Me There’s Life After Death, by Annie Kagan, and lastly, The Witch’s Dream, A Healer’s Way of Knowledge, by Florinda Donner Grau. 

I’m all about magic and mysticism as it applies to everyday life.  It’s empowering, and beckons us to wake up from being zombies who just shop, eat, diet and watch TV. 
What’s your best book marketing tip? 

Just be (genuinely) upbeat in your life.  If you’re feeling blah, you can’t easily promote your book.  But don’t force the cheerleading crap.  Someone recently tried to “coach me” and offered unsolicited advice—one of the worst things you can do, if you ask me.  Unless you’re really, really aware and sensitive to other peoples’ feelings and what they might be receptive to.   

As a society, we have to learn to trust ourselves. Our instincts, and “gut feelings” are potent.  Guidance from the spiritual part of you that actually knows a lot better than the part of you that just wants to get your nails done and look cute.  We are all very powerful spiritual beings.  But because we live in a consumerist society that only benefits the very few who pull the strings in this country, (those that own the corporations that ultimately control our government), we have been reduced to pawns.  It is time for the People to claim their Power back.  And their country.  Right now, we live in The United States of Pepsi and Exxon.  Not what our Founding Fathers fought for. 

When you are in right alignment with yourself, the way becomes clear.  You will receive powerful guidance from your intuition as to what, when and where.  Trust your feelings.  They are gold.

Our intuition is a very powerful tool many of us lose track of.  I hate when I’m disconnected from myself and what’s going on in my subconscious.  It affects everything I do negatively. 

If people could see you while you write, what would be the silliest thing they’d witness?

Good lord, what I’m wearing now.  A cape.  A scarf.  A hat.  Fingerless gloves.  And as many blankets as I can get on me as the room I write in is freezing!  My nose, fingertips and toes are often cold.   Sometimes, all that is visible of me while I’m at the computer is my nose, as the rest is swaddled.  Very sexy. 

            —Warm is the new sexy.  Isn’t it?  (If not, it should be!)

We’re always looking for great books/authors.  Whom/what is one of your favorites that you think has been grossly under-appreciated?

Christine Pope is a very talented writer.  I’ve recorded three of her audio books, Dragon Rose  (fairy tale) The Gaia Gambit (sci-fi romance) and just wrapping up Ashes of Roses, Christine’s version of Cinderella.  I’m awed by her intelligence and use of language.  I’ve accused her of being a “painter” with words.  And Lynn Andrews is one of my mystical favorites who is, rightfully, successful. Spiritual truth is stranger than fiction. 

            I need to stop asking these questions.  I already can’t keep up with my TBR list!

Do you write full- or part-time?  If only part-time, what’s your “real” job?

I used to work corporate day jobs in order to support my “acting habit”.  I never liked the jobs, although they were perfect for me at the time (one of them was in publishing).  But I always resented that I wasn’t working as an artist for my living.  I finally put the rubber to the road after I lost my last corporate job 7 years ago.  That meant no health insurance.  And no income. 

I scraped by on savings and unemployment benefits.  But my bottom line was, I couldn’t “go back.”  I could no longer do jobs I hated, just to survive.  I don’t want to survive.  I want to thrive.  The only way to do that is to say no to what you don’t want, and say yes to what you do.  Sounds easy, and it is once you get into the swing of it.  And yes, you’ll have to figure out how to make ends meet, even if it means working a non “dream job” for a while.  But it can be done.  The world is filled with pioneers who have done just that.  You have to believe in yourself.  And in possibility.  Forget “reality.”  That’s for suckers with no imagination.

Most folk live their lives driven by “obligation.”  To family, friends, work, country, church.  I believe in healthy “selfishness”  (what truly amounts to Divine Self Love).  When I started applying these principles in earnest (and yes, I was sweating bullets for quite a time while waiting to see if my theories would pay out) my writing career started taking off.  Quite fast, actually.  I’ve had two books published, a year apart.  Raving Violet came out last January, and MEMORIES, DREAMS & DEFLECTIONS: My Odyssey Through Emotional Indigestion (a spoof on the title of one of Carl Jung’s books) came out last month. 

I’ve also been recording a ton of audio books lately!  It’s a relatively new venture for me, but it’s custom tailored to me, and vice versa.  It’s an amazing use of my talents.  Writing (and recording) my own books and recording others’ audio books are perfect outlets for my acting, writing and storytelling skills.  Everything has come together.  Now, I love my jobs.  

If you want your own book produced in audio, go the ACX website.  That’s where you’ll find me, and lots of other narrator/producers.  It’s a great and easy system. 

            Squee!  *maximizes Safari tab*

Is there any question you’ve always wanted to be asked?  What is it?  And what’s the answer?

I’ll start small. 

What’s the secret to life? 

My answer is, while it’s a mystery, the key to unlocking it exists.  Life is about expansion and exploration, learning, creation and adventure.  It is supposed to be fun.  When we start acting that way, we free ourselves of the shackles we’ve inherited (but choose to keep on).  This time period on planet Earth is all about moving out of survival mode and into celebration, freedom and joy.  Literally, Peace on Earth.  Communion and Community.  It’s happening!  Don’t be daunted by what you see, especially in the media, just know that the chaos now enables us to build a new world. 

This is the kind of stuff I write about.  As a passionate philosopher and mystic, I like to take the big principles and apply them to my “little” life.  There’s plenty of humor, heartbreak, sex, death and insight along the way. 

Life is majestic when we flow with it, instead of fighting it and ourselves.  Using your “gut” feelings and intuition to guide your life is both a subtle path, and a powerful one.

Wow, Valerie.  Thank you so much for sharing your insights with us.  Your answers alone have made me want to run out and pick up both your books!  (And I'm not sure your definition of starting out small and mine are quite the same…lol.)

Do your minds and bodies a favorrun out and pick up Valerie's books (just click on the cover photo):

A continuation of the serendipitous saga commenced in RAVING VIOLET, Valerie Gilbert’s first non-fiction collection of short stories, MEMORIES, DREAMS & DEFLECTIONS: My Odyssey Through Emotional Indigestion, picks up the sojourn of this sassy, single mystic, mired in her mind and cloistered above the streets of New York City. This volume explores Valerie’s intrepid and irreverent search for healing inside and out (both medical and mystical) the quest for peace (and quiet) and, as always, true love. 

You can find more Valerie on her blog and Facebook!

6:00 AM Posted by JULIA JOSEPH 5

Thursday, February 13, 2014

Please welcome the wonderfully romantic Debbie Christiana!

Hello everybody!

As a special treat this Valentine's Day, I thought I'd have in a wonderful (and fellow Black Opal) Romance writer, so would you please join me in welcoming the amazing, the one and only, Debbie Christiana, author of Solstice and Twin Flames?  

For your reading pleasure, I peppered her with some fun little questions and she gave me some great answers: 

What kind of child were you in school?

I was shy in grade school but by middle/high school, I was much more outgoing as I discovered boys. I wasn’t in the popular group, but I had a fun group of friends. My girlfriend and I got along much better with the boys than with other girls and all the female drama that went on. The boys were more fun and adventurous. We liked that. Having said that, I’ve always been a bookworm.

What was your favorite subject?

I loved English, history and creative writing and did well in those subjects. I have never been able to wrap my mind around math. I wish I could have, but it never came easy to me. So, I read about famous mathematicians and scientists instead.

Tell us an embarrassing (PG-13) story about yourself.

I love Halloween. It’s my favorite holiday. My anniversary is November 4th because we couldn’t get October 31st. When we were married 25 years, we had a Hallowversary Party. Every couple came as a famous dead couple. Long story short, the party was a success, maybe too much of a success - the cops came. I thought they were male strippers. I may have had a few too many ‘spirits,’ but all ended well. The officers were flattered and, after they told us to keep it down, they left chuckling. I wasn’t embarrassed until the next day, when the phone calls and pictures starting coming. (In my defense, once when I was in my 20’s, I went to a Halloween party, the cops came and they were indeed, male strippers.)

How much research goes into your writing?

A lot and it’s one of my favorite things about writing. My debut novel, Twin Flames, is about soul mates and reincarnation. Marc and Natalia are regressed and go back in time. It was so much fun finding actual historic events in time (some obscure, some well-known) as the setting for their past lives. I also spent time with a woman who was a past life therapist and regressed people.

My second novel, Solstice, is about Italian witches, or Stregas, and I delved into the ancient and secretive religion of Stregheria, which was fascinating. I love the creative process of writing, but I want the base of the story to be authentic.

What are some of your writing rituals?

I light scented candles, usually lavender, vanilla, and sandalwood. I light a sage smudge and let the smoke clear any negative energy in my writing area, pick a Pandora station that fits with what I’m writing, and I’m set to go. I have all kinds of crystals on my desk as well. If I have a yoga class in the morning before I write – all the better.

What are you reading/planning to read now?

The First Phone Call From Heaven, by Mitch Albom. I loved his other books, so I’m looking forward to reading this one.

What’s your best book marketing tip?

I wish I had one. I do it all. Facebook, Twitter, blogging, etc.  I think they all help, but some think it’s best to find one that you are good at and focus on that social media. I like the interaction on Facebook and find it easier to connect with readers and other authors there. I had a Facebook Release Party for Solstice and I thought it was pretty successful. I met a lot of new people and that’s always good.

Thank you so much for stopping by, Debbie.  I adored having you over for a chat on this day that celebrates love!

You can find more about Debbie at:

Do yourself a favor and pick up your own Valentine's gift--Debbie's thrilling romance novel--today:

Time is running out for Armend Zogu. The 250-year-old family curse on his head will claim his life on his 30th birthday, the winter solstice.

Sofia Palmalosi is the Strega who can save him. A descendant of a long line of powerful Italian witches, her family’s magic was a gift from the Goddess Diana.

Together Sofia and Armend embark on a journey from New York to Sicily and the ancient ruins of Diana’s temple, and then back to New York, all the while fighting a battle of magic and wits with a psychopath who wants them both dead and the curse intact.

If the curse doesn’t kill Armend, breaking it just might.

You can find Solstice now on:

Debbie Christiana loves to read and write about things that go bump in the night, mysteries and unusual love stories. She has been fortunate to have two paranormal romance novels, Twin Flames and Solstice, published by Black Opal Books. A novella, Eternal Flames, will be released in 2014. Her dark/paranormal short fiction stories have been published in BITES: Ten Tales of Vampires, BELTANE: Ten Tales of Witchcraft and Things That Go Bump For The Holidays.

Debbie is a member of RWA, Secretary of her local RWA chapter, and a member of the International Thriller Writers. When she isn’t writing you can find her outside or practicing yoga. She and her husband are empty nesters living in Connecticut.

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Friday, February 7, 2014

Valentine's Day Giveaway Hop

Hey y'all!

¡Bienvenidos!   As part of the run up to the most romantic of holidays, I'm taking part in the Valentine's Day Giveaway Hop hosted by Laura Plus Books.  
(A big thanks to LBP for doing this for us!)

I'll be giving away a signed paperback copy of my newly released novel, The Broken, as well as an e-copy of the anthology Things That Go Bump for the Holidays, which contains my short story prequel entitled Palomino Man.

To get us started off right, I'm going to relate to you a quick anecdote that illustrates my personal brand of romance.  It's a true story, and one I may or may not have taken part in…

Although my divorce wasn't quite final, I'd already been dating my new boyfriend for five months.  My jerk of an ex-husband had ducked signing the decree for a year, but I was (at last!) counting in minutes the time to my freedom (from the jerk, not the boyfriend).  That very night, I'd be celebrating the end of my abusive marriage with my new guy.

Some people had said I was crazy, jumping right back into another relationship, but I knew better.  I'd been to hell and back.  I knew what a crappy man looked like (okay, he'd looked pretty good, but that's beside the point) and what that horrible man had acted like.  But I'd finally found a good man.  A really good one.  

And I wasn't going to let him get away.

At any rate, I was busy blowdrying my hair on the morning of my court date with destiny.  I had to look good for the judge, seeing as I was showing up to my divorce alone.  (It seemed like a fitting end to my marriage.  My ex hadn't been truly present from the beginning.  Why should he have been there for the end?)  

My ever patient (at least back then) boyfriend strolled into the bathroom and sat on the toilet, staring at me quietly for a full minute.  

I clicked off the dryer.  "What's up?"

"Nothing."  He fidgeted with the button on his cuff.

"Then why were you watching me fix my hair?"

"Well…"  He looked up.  "You see, I've got a hypothetical question for you."

"Go on."

"Let's say there was this guy, and he had an engagement ring that was his mother's and the diamond in it was his great-grandmother's…"

"Yeah?"  I'd heard the story before.  He was talking about the ring he'd given to his ex-girlfriend.  The girl who'd thrown it back in his face.  She'd told him his proposal wasn't romantic enough and that he needed to do it right if he wanted her to say yes.

"Well, say he'd given it to someone else, but she kind of ridiculed him for it.  Would you think it was wrong of him to propose to another girl with it?"

I smiled.  I couldn't help it.  The ring was his heart.  Maybe it was used, maybe it was dinged up a bit and rejected.  But it was still the heart that belonged to me.  I wanted it no matter how many people he'd offered it to.  Besides, I had an unused wedding dress hanging in a closet at my parents' house, leftover from a botched attempt to marry my ex in an actual ceremony attended by family.

"Let me answer that with a hypothetical question of my own--let's say there was this girl, and she had a wedding dress that she'd bought to marry another guy.  She never ended up wearing it, but it was her dress.  The one she was meant to wear as a bride.  Would you think it was wrong of her to wear it for another guy?" I reached down and caught his chin in my hand.

He quit messing with his shirt and nodded.  "Good to know."  He rose, smacking my bottom as he brushed past me and out the bathroom door.  

I picked the blowdryer back up and grinned at it.  Just like that, I'd gained an entirely new sense of freedom.  I may have been beaten up and secondhand, just like my soon-to-be engagement ring, but I was finally free.  Free to love and be loved without judgment or fear.

Okay, yes, that really was a conversation between my husband and me.  It took place thirteen years ago.  Sigh.  I still totally dig him.  Lol.  Now, give me one of your favorite V-Day memories in the comments.  I'll randomly choose a winner at the end of the hop and send you your prizes.  Make sure to leave me your email so I can get your deets if you win.

May you have a fantastic Valentine's Day!

The Broken:

Born into a family of Guardians—extraordinarily gifted humans who fight demons to protect mortal souls—seventeen year old Rose Kazin shows no signs of being blessed with the supernatural talents her family has used for generations to fight.  When she and her father figure, an age old celestial Warrior, are horribly wounded in a demonic ambush, Rose awakens to find a younger Warrior, Ouriel, has volunteered to stand in as her protector.  She rails against his presence—and her own heart—but Ouriel seems interested in only one thing—teaching Rose how to protect herself from the demons she was never supposed to fight.

You can get your copies of The Broken at Barnes & Noble and Amazon now.

Please make sure to visit the sites of all the authors participating in the hop!

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Wednesday, February 5, 2014

What's Coming in February?

Hey all!

This is just a quick reminder that The Broken is now available at:

Barnes & Noble in Paperback and Nook


Amazon in Paperback and Kindle.

If you want more of the Kazin sisters, make sure to pick up the prequel short story told from Miriam's point of view.  "Palomino Man" is available in the anthology Things That Go Bump for the Holidays at Amazon and B&N in paperback as well as in the Kindle and Nook versions.

Also, I will be posting the first two chapters of The Beaten (Broken book two) in about three weeks as a sneak peek for my most loyal readers.  Make sure you follow my blog so you don't miss out.

In other business, it's almost Valentine's Day, and love is most definitely in the air!!  Over the next two weeks, I'm going to be featuring fellow authors and their Romance novels.  I'll be having the wonderful Debbie Christiana and amazing Valerie Gilbert over, so make sure to stop by.

Lots of love this February,
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